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November 2010

Gratitude → cbssports.com
Nov 26, 2010-1 notes
“Male privilege is not a guarantor of either happiness or health, and trying desperately to play the part of protector and provider has robbed generations of men of both. Feminism, in concert with these many new and exciting reproductive and contraceptive technologies, offers men a chance to rethink and re-evaluate their worth and their purpose. It offers them an opportunity to be intimate allies with their female partners, to forge relationships based on more than duty and dependency. It gives men a chance to be loved for the wholeness of who we are, rather than solely for what we can provide.” —Hugo Schwyzer (via gauntlet)
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“Evangelical Christianity has been hijacked by people who would give Jesus himself the boot if He knocked on their door.” —Jimmy Carter (via azspot)
Nov 05, 2010137 notes
“Congratulations to the Drug Cartels and Moral Crusaders who’ve won a great victory in California! The Criminal Justice system can continue to tax citizens to incarcerate them for engaging in a harmless private activity thanks to the loss of Prop. 19.” —

Judge Andrew Napolitano (via girlygirlemc)

(via hipsterlibertarian)

Nov 04, 2010252 notes
“You’re not supposed to be so blind with patriotism that you can’t face reality. Wrong is wrong no matter who does it or who says it.” —Malcolm X (via revolutionnow)
Nov 04, 2010360 notes
La Petite Feministe Anglaise: The People You Meet When You Write About Rape → sarahgraham7.tumblr.com

moreapologies:

From pervocracy:

I could not have said this better in a lifetime. Every post about rape on an major blog is littered with comments from one or all of these people.

Mr. What About The Men
“The real problem here is all these false rape accusations that are destroying our society! 90 million men are falsely accused of rape every second! A woman just has to sort of mumble a word starting with ‘r’ and a man instantly gets a life sentence! There are no instances on record of a woman actually being raped!”

Ms. Tough Girl
“If women would learn martial arts—70-year-olds and women with disabilities can do this if they put their minds to it, darnit—and carry weapons everywhere, no one would ever get raped! All you have to do is be ready to threaten your own friends and lovers with lethal force at any moment, any anyone who can’t do that must be weak or something.”

Mr. Model Victims Only Please
“The victim was no angel herself. If you look at her record, she’s been arrested several times, she’s a single mother, and she’s living on welfare. So it’s not like she was some innocent little virgin beforehand. None of this makes it right, but I’m just saying, let’s not overreact like a good woman got ruined.”

Ms. Fashion Police
“Did you hear what she was wearing? I’m sorry but that’s just not common sense. If you go out looking like a piece of meat, you have to expect you’ll get treated like a piece of meat.”

Mr. I’m Not Blaming Her But It’s Her Fault
“Rape is never the victim’s fault, of course. But I just want people to admit that she has some responsibility. That she maybe played a part in it. That in an alternate universe where she’d done things differently and she lived in a steel Battlemech wearing a chastity belt, she wouldn’t have gotten raped, and she did make the choice to not use a Battlemech. I just need people to acknowledge that.”

Ms. Couples Therapy
“I dunno, seems to me like they both made mistakes. Maybe he just wasn’t reading her signals, or maybe she wasn’t communicating clearly to him. A lot can get caught up in an emotional moment like that and I bet they both feel really bad right now.”

Mr. Offensive And/Or Baffling Metaphor
“Look, if you walk down a dark alley with a wallet stuffed full of money, sure it’s still a crime when you get mugged, but what if the mugger is just trying to feed his family because he was laid off by an evil solicitor and the ghost showed him a lone crutch leaning in the corner?”

Ms. CSI
“If you put the pieces together, her story just doesn’t wash. She claims that he ripped her pants off, but her pants have a button fly. Ha! And she waited a whole forty minutes after the supposed rape to call the police—who would do that?”

Mr. Troll
“lol bitch deserved it loooollll”

Ms. You Don’t Just Get To Decide Whether You Consent
“She was seen earlier in the night drinking with this guy, talking to him, and even making out with him! And then she went up to his apartment! What did she think would happen? No one ever goes to a guy’s apartment unless they’re consenting to every sex act he could possibly want.”

Mr. How Do I Not Rape Someone It Is So Difficult
“I just don’t understand how to tell if someone is ‘consenting’ or not. What if she secretly decides she doesn’t like it—am I a rapist then? What if she changes her mind midway through? Or afterwards? It’s impossible to know what women want, so how am I supposed to know if they want to have sex with me or not?”

Ms. Traditional Values
“You know, back when women dressed modestly and simply didn’t go out drinking with strangers or going home with people they’d just met, this sort of thing didn’t happen.”

Mr. This Wouldn’t Happen If Women Would Just Fuck Me Already
“This sort of thing is inevitable when women constantly act as gatekeepers and doom beta males to a life of frustration and loneliness. Of course rape is horrible, but the pent-up rage felt by men cast aside just because they weren’t billionaire underwear models has to express itself somehow.”

Ms. Avoid The R-Word
“Wow, that is just not cool. Having sex under those circumstances—I mean, treating a girl like that—you know, being inappropriate with her—is a totally insensitive and downright mean thing to do.”

 Someone should write an allegorical fairy tale with these as characters. Goldilocks and the Rape Culture or something.

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“I haven’t eaten lunch all week because everyone brought their lunches from home!” —Crazy Coworker #1
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“In fact, according to the charity Childline, in South Africa a girl actually has a higher chance of being raped than of learning to read.” —

Kat Banyard’s “The Equality Illusion” (via i-am-the-lighthouse)

Oh. Hey there rape culture. This is a big fucking problem, read that statistic and then try to tell me rape culture doesn’t exist. It is more likely for young girls to be raped than educated in South Africa.

Love,

Rabble

(via rabbleprochoice)

Nov 03, 2010173 notes
No. 2 sign you're a racist: You're more concerned with the fact that you got called out than you are with understanding why you got called out in the first place.
  • Lauer: "I wonder if some people are going to read that, now that you've written it, and they might give you some heat for that. And the reason is this--"
  • Bush [interrupting]: "Don't care."
  • Lauer: "Well, here's the reason. You're not saying that the worst moment in your presidency was watching the misery in Louisiana. You're saying it was when someone insulted you because of that."
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“The dogmas of the quiet past, are inadequate to the stormy present. The occasion is piled high with difficulty, and we must rise — with the occasion. As our case is new, so we must think anew, and act anew. We must disenthrall ourselves, and then we shall save our country.” —

Abraham Lincoln, Message to Congress, 1862. Something to think about when voting. (via politicalprof)

Thank you, Mr. President.

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